Lately the blogging about blogging posts have been all the rage, and you know what? I like the rage! Let's hear it for rage! It's so much fun! If you can't talk about blogs on blogs, where can you talk about blogs since the rest of the world thinks all bloggers are crazy? I kid. I kid. Kind of.
There's been a lot of how to posts going around so that we can all figure out how to be terrific bloggers. And the truth is that you really do have to do all those things that everybody says- comment on other blogs, make your site look nice, sponsor, etc.
But the best stuff I do for my blog I do away from my computer. It isn't the pretty blog aesthetic and the twitter account and the countless comments on other blogs that make people stay on a blog. It's the blogger. The person.
And so, I announce to you...
EIGHT THINGS I DO FOR MY BLOG...
THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH BLOGGING
BY THE LIFE OF BON
I admit I've seen better days. But this is really what I look like when I blog. IT'S THE REAL ME, PEEPS!
1. I read. Like a freaking fiend. If you want to be a good writer, I think you need to read a lot. My sister once told me that John Grisham reads two novels a week. You have to be immersed with language, surrounded by words. In addition to making me a better writer, reading gives me lots of ideas for things to write. I can't tell you how many posts have been triggered by something I read. It opens up so many more doors to you and makes your world so much bigger.
2. I walk the dog. For some reason it's when I'm walking the dog all by my lonesome that some of my best blog ideas are born. Lately I've been all bundled up, just walking along, enjoying the rare sunshine when some inspiration hits. The fresh air clears my head, and I'm allowed to think uninterrupted. You see, lots of ideas try to creep into my head all day long, but the problem is I'm usually so busy focusing on a lesson on parts of speech or a left hand turn lane that those thoughts have no room and quickly leave. When I'm walking the dog all by myself those thoughts are welcome to come in. If you don't have some quiet time for clearing your head at least once a day, you should!
3. I hang out with my friends. Hanging out with my friends is crucial to the quality of my blog for a couple of reasons. One reason is they help my social skills. Isn't that weird that we have have to continually hone and work on our social skills? But we do. Hanging with my besties on the regular I feel like keeps me not only socializing correctly, but grounded and sane and happy. Plus, they're a huge support. They always tell me they read my blog and then they make fun of rude commenters for me and tell me that anyone who hates my blog is an idiot. It's good for the soul.
4. I teach high schoolers. One day I would like to attempt to blog without a full time job on top of it. But for now I feel like it only makes me a stronger blogger. My time management is MUCH better when I have to juggle so much, and besides that those young bucks keep me hip. How would I ever know what the Harlem Shake is without them? Or was *smh* means? I mean, come on, these are crucial skills!
5. I take baths. Lots and lots of baths. Probably three to four a week if you want to be technical about it. Baths are a reward for me. They are a relaxation. My me time. I have to have rewards for my work (and yes, my blog IS work as admitted here) or else I am not as motivated to work as hard. Also, I think the break is good for me. If I am online blogging, networking, emailing, etc all night I go crazy. And start to feel really depressed. Hence, bath time= happy Bonnie= better blog.
6. I go on trips. As often as the budget allows! I am quite admittedly addicted to traveling. In October we went on a seven day cruise and I didn't touch a piece of technology the entire time. It was wonderful! The blogging and social media world can get so wildly insane and I feel like sometimes you just have to take huge steps back, go away for a little while, and remember who you and why you are doing what you are doing. I had some experiences on the cruise ship, all alone enjoying the sunset on the deck, where suddenly life seemed so clear and simple to me. I was more than excited to get back to blogging after the seven days were up, but that time for just me was absolutely necessary to keeping me happy and balanced.
Tay Tay, don't you dare make fun of me for this selfie.
But it doesn't have to be huge trips! This week Hubs and I are escaping to St. George for a couple of days to enjoy our anniversary and take a time out from the world. I have no doubt I will come back a better blogger.
7. I hit up the gym. (Sporadically). I don't know why I put this in here. Mostly I just want to brag that I have set foot in a gym. Applause! Applause!
Um... actually the exercise feels really good to me. Wearing myself out physically somehow makes me stronger mentally. I can't explain it, I just know that I feel so rejuvenated and cleansed after a good work out, and I come to my blog with more to offer. Isn't that crazy how that works?!?
8. I spend lovey time with Hubs. Greg gives me confidence and he is always interested in the progress of my blogs. It's cute how he asks me how many page views I got and what blog I'm sponsoring next. His support is a huge help to me. But it's not only the support, it's the time that I am able to focus on and love someone and I guess just feel so totally human. Having someone to love and care about so deeply enriches
all of my human emotions and allows me to be a more honest, real, and vulnerable writer.
Now you spill your guts. What's the best thing you do for your blog that has nothing to do with blogging? Best suggestions will be posted on Life of Bon on Friday with links to your blog so don't forget to leave your blog URL.
MWAH!
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